Saturday, 18 February 2012

The Wedding Diary 《结婚那件事》 *Review*

For girls is a beginning of a "Happy Ever After" story.
For guys, haha, it's where all their life savings spent in just one day.

Yes, their marriage day.

Have you guys out there ever wonder what really happens behind every marriage? Most of the marriage la.
Haha i bet most of the people think that marriage must be a very grand event, where the wedding planner must arrange and plan a fairy tale wedding and both the bridegroom and the bride invite all their relatives and friends (ya i mean ALL of them, which is a big number of people) to attend this big event to acknowledge that they are officially together for the rest of their lives.

Sounds nice huh.

Aiks! You forget one thing that is very important and i'm sure it doesn't cross your mind : MONEY.

I heard many people had argue about this sensitive yet important issue.
"Money is not everything la", "Money can't buy love la", "Money is the root of evil la" , money this money that and blah blah blah.

I can tell you, money is not everything, but without money, you are nothing.

No money, how can you organize a grand wedding dinner at a 5 star hotel, invite hundreds or thousands of close relatives and good friends to attend the wedding dinner, or even making preparations for the wedding (such as wedding photo albums, wedding gowns and tuxedos, wedding assessories, etc.)???

They don't come for free nor drop from the sky for you.

Sorry for saying this but we are living in the reality world where money is super duper important. I admit that money IS important. Not to be superficial, without money, we can't achieve the lifestyles or dreams or grand weddings that we would have always wanted all this while. Those who say money is not important at all, that is bull shitting la. If money is not important, why do you have to wake up early in the morning, work your ass off just to earn some money? Nowadays many young graduates struggle like hell just to get into a company to work, for what? Of course to earn money for a living, am i right? =.=

Haha sorry for making the atmosphere so serious, i just wanna emphasize how important is money to people  in the modern era now. You can say i am money-minded or whatsoever, then tell me, who doesn't like money? In certain situations, money is not important. On the other way around, money plays a big big role in our lives and determines our lifestyles. This scenario can be seen in the movie "The Wedding Diary" or 《结婚那件事》.

The movie talks about how a couple maintain a relationship where the main guy is trying his best to settle all his money issues in managing his wedding day. I used to think that wedding is a simple and sweet ceremony that is super easy to be done *naive and stupid thinking*, after watching this movie, it changed my mind. The story tells us that wedding is not as simple as it is, as it involves many aspects like approval and blessings from parents, money management (where the guy have to pay almost all the expenses) and handling criticisms from friends and family if the guy is unable to manage his wedding according the way it should be. Damn 麻烦 (ma fan = troublesome) right?? Watch the movie also no mood to get married le. (LOL as if i'm getting married =.=)

This movie is worth to watch cos it portrays how Malaysians settle their marriage expenses (most of the Chinese in Malaysia) and as well as to maintain good relationship among the wedding couple, families and friends. Most importantly, the main guy portrays the determination and perseverance in solving many challenges before and after his wedding involving every of the aspects mentioned above. Very good combination concerning different aspects of life. Better than what i've had expected.


The way the main actor portrays his character is super funny and realistic. Ah Niu (阿牛- a very famous Malaysian singer, actor and director) is the main character in this movie. The way he expressed his worries and fear regarding his marriage is good. This is because he comes from a poor family and his wife is from a super duper rich family. This causes gaps in 2 different people from different family backgrounds especially in terms of $$$. The guy has to struggle like shit in order to fulfill his parents-in-law's requirements and demands. So kelian lor him. >.< Haha the part where he's thinking of money when he is having sex with his wife is super hilarious! Very creative and funny story!!! I laugh my ass off throughout the movie! XD
It really reflects the actual scenario of weddings among the Chinese in Malaysia. On the point and funny. Hahahahaha.....

Pushing aside the humor, i can feel the emotions and the reality in the movie. It has a touching sense of movie line too. The parents of the girl in the movie are very protective and love their daughter very very much. This made me think of my parents and it made me cried. Yeah i cried a lot in this movie. T^T
It is very hard to explain in words you know. I truly realize why my parents want to protect me so much. It is because they wanna make sure my future partner can love and protect me more than them so i won't suffer and get hurt in the future. Very very touching loooooooo... TT^TT

I wanna say Daddy Mummy I love you! Thank you for taking care of me and protecting me since i was born..I'm very blessed and lucky to have both of you as my parents! I love you both very very much! <3<3<3

Perhaps i'm a bit too emotional, but the story does make a point there. By the way i don't wanna spoil the suspense la. You have to watch the movie yourselves to know what i am trying to say here. :)

Haha dunwan to express how i feel when i watch the movie le. The moral of the story is no matter how hard is the situation is (even if you are facing big money problems now), problems always can be solved with great determination and just keep on fighting! There's a will there's always a way! :)

In short, don't give up la. Trust yourself and you can do it better. Hohoho... :)))

Yeah one more thing, money is very important! (Haha i add it myself ok)
So people, start saving your money as soon as possible okay?? (for guys : to spent on their wedding day, for girls, to save it for shopping! LOL just kidding lar... :p)

Hope you enjoy the movie and have a good laugh too!

p/s : For cry babies, please don't forget to bring tissues ya... >w<


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